i have a confession 🫣


I'm so nosy.

There, I admitted it.

I love research—diving into things that are both my business and absolutely not my business.

trapped in the 9-5? here's what they don't tell you

Every day, I watch professionals drag themselves to jobs they've outgrown, convinced they're trapped in an endless cycle of survival. Maybe you know the feeling—watching another year slip by, wondering if this is really all there is.

I see this sentiment everywhere, including in a recent Reddit post: "I've only been working for one full year, and I'm already burnt out. How am I supposed to do this for another 30 or 40?"

the greatest trap isn't your job—it's your thinking

When I first contemplated starting a business, I was paralysed by what I didn't know. What I discovered was far more valuable. The limits we see aren't real—they're just shadows cast by our assumptions about what's "normal" or "possible."

let me blow your mind for a moment

Here's what some normal people are doing:

  • Running luxury pet transport services, earning $2,000+ per weekend driving dogs to vacation homes while their owners fly first class.
  • Creating YouTube channels of calming music for pets, generating $150,000+ annually through ads and sponsorships
  • Teaching online pizza dough masterclasses, turning a $500 course into a fully-funded Italian holiday
  • Operating worm farms and turning composting into a $5,000 monthly side hustle
  • Building businesses around changing diapers—charging $200 per session to teach new parents essential skills

when you look at what's working in business, it usually comes down to fixing problems in:

  1. Health – Easing pain, reducing stress, improving wellness
  2. Wealth – Saving time, making money, reducing waste
  3. Relationships – Connecting people, strengthening bonds, building communities

The biggest barrier between you and freedom isn't skill, money, or time—it's the story you tell yourself about what's possible.

your next step

Be nosy this week. Eavesdrop on conversations. What problems do people complain about? Write them down, no matter how trivial they seem. Think about how you would solve them.

Start training your mind to think in solutions. Your purpose is to be of service, to share knowledge, and to solve problems.

That's it.

Stay curious. Be nosy. And take notes 😀

Your blooming late bestie,

Lisa Marie

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